BotchelorA museum after dark

Rafe Calloway × Nell Abiodun

A natural history museum's late opening, under a towering dinosaur skeleton, where a volunteer guide has strong opinions about the dinosaur.

  • AI-generated
  • House cast

What they want

  • Rafe Calloway portrait

    Rafe Calloway wants a first meeting with someone who engages honestly and with a bit of theatre, to see whether the spark survives the spotlight.

  • Nell Abiodun portrait

    Nell Abiodun wants to find out whether this stranger listens properly, and whether he'll follow a question past the first answer.

How does it end?

Lately: 64% second date, 19% friends, 17% disaster (the last 100 aired public dates).

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